Monday, June 6, 2011

Fighting with Oneself.

When there is question of fighting with yourself, people got amazed and often ignore it. But every human being fights with oneself everyday and every moment. Let me give you example.
Whenever you want to a dearer tee and you dont have money , you fight with your self and over come your mind to not to buy it.
Whenever you want to have an Ice cream and  you see your child is seek  , you fight with your self to not to have it in order to restrain your child from having an ice-cream because he is ill.
Whenever you see some transgression is happening and your  senses naturally attracted to that, you fight with your self to resist yourself from doing that sinful activity.
Whenever we are offered bribe being principled and moral person, you fight yourself to avoid these avaricious and follow your morals.
                     So are we doing right in restraining our self from whatever we want to do? Are we right in suppressing our self from attractions or things we may like to do? Are we right in thinking of others and morals against our needs and desires? Should we leave our necessities in order to follow morals and help others?
                     Answer is "Its depends on you and your way of thinking" .
Ya answer is not so good but its the fact.
I have seen people thinking of none against their needs and desires. I have seen people want to help as much poor as they can because they have pity in their nature and have kindness in their nature. I have seen people who neither say no or yes and just follow the path of time. These people do whatever time and conditions permits.

                    People dont want to think beyond their circumference and horizon. People feel that why should I think that , I am not philanthropist or social worker. They think that I am given life to enjoy my life then why should I think of others or any damn morals. They go to office and work for money, come to home and work for home, go to temple for begging for wealth and good fortune and take a long sleep. Nothing new in their life. People even like this so called "Peaceful" life. Are we becoming animals ? How are we different from animals? Dont you think we should change our self from this so callled "Regular" routine? Have you ever restrain your self from what you should not do? Have your ever stopped your self from following regular routine and go to even see what poor people are doing when they dont have money to have food for one day? Have your ever felt the condition when mother trying to make her baby sleep to stop her asking for food? Why we are not thinking this? Why we not even think for other out side our influence circle?



  1. Your writing style is very immature and your thoughts are unclear. You need to read more.

    But I must explain to you how all this mistaken idea of denouncing pleasure and praising pain was born and I will give you a complete account of the system, and expound the actual teachings of the great explorer of the truth, the master-builder of human happiness. No one rejects, dislikes, or avoids pleasure itself, because it is pleasure, but because those who do not know how to pursue pleasure rationally encounter consequences that are extremely painful. Nor again is there anyone who loves or pursues or desires to obtain pain of itself, because it is pain, but because occasionally circumstances occur in which toil and pain can procure him some great pleasure. To take a trivial example, which of us ever undertakes laborious physical exercise, except to obtain some advantage from it? But who has any right to find fault with a man who chooses to enjoy a pleasure that has no annoying consequences, or one who avoids a pain that produces no resultant pleasure?
    On the other hand, we denounce with righteous indignation and dislike men who are so beguiled and demoralized by the charms of pleasure of the moment, so blinded by desire, that they cannot foresee the pain and trouble that are bound to ensue; and equal blame belongs to those who fail in their duty through weakness of will, which is the same as saying through shrinking from toil and pain. These cases are perfectly simple and easy to distinguish. In a free hour, when our power of choice is untrammelled and when nothing prevents our being able to do what we like best, every pleasure is to be welcomed and every pain avoided. But in certain circumstances and owing to the claims of duty or the obligations of business it will frequently occur that pleasures have to be repudiated and annoyances accepted. The wise man therefore always holds in these matters to this principle of selection: he rejects pleasures to secure other greater pleasures, or else he endures pains to avoid worse pains.

  2. you sure by reading I will be clear. Does thoughts of other people will make my writing clear. I am not portraying thoughts of others. These are my thoughts and I firmly believe in that. If they are wrong , its totally your point of view not necessarily true.